The number one thing couples say to me before a shoot is some version of this: "We're not very good at posing." And I understand why. Most people have spent their whole lives on the wrong side of a camera. Posing feels awkward. Holding a position while someone points a lens at you feels nothing like real life. And when you feel self-conscious, it shows — in the set of your jaw, the stiffness of your shoulders, the way your smile stops short of your eyes. Here's what I've lear